There
are a few rules of etiquette when joing the world of swinging
and swingers. Sometimes known as wife swapping or bored housewives
here are our tips for entering a new world and lifestyle.
Oh yes, without wishing to sound like we are teaching you to suck
eggs, make sure you protect whatever you are using to getonline,
whether a mobile device or a laptop. There are some nasty malwares
out there!
Hardware Protection:
Free Firewall Download: ZoneAlarm
www.zonelabs.com
Free Anti-Virus Download: AVG Anti-Virus www.grisoft.com
Personal Protection & Etiquette:
Reply to each couple individually.
Don't send the same message to the all couples, ensure that you
read their profile and reply to their information individually,
don't sent a generic email of "hi, saw your information nice
pic."
Also don't talk about yourself, your profile
should be doing that for you if you have completed it correctly.
However don't go overboard with too much flattery, simply explain
what you and your partner are looking for and hope it’s the same.
Remember that whatever message you send ensure it’s related to that
couple.
Most couple's adverts are completed by men, very rarely we find
women adding the details, and the photo is always of the female
partner to attract you in. If you are attracted say so, but don't
go overboard, remember this is someone's partner and they are NOT
looking for a single relationship.
Ensure you answer all your emails to show
you are interested. Don't ask for more photos, to a couple that
is a red rag to a bull and only means one thing ‘timewaster photo
collecting voyeur!’ If you don't like the person who has contacted
you then just be honest and say no thanks. Turning people down is
fine, and you may find you are turning more away than not, but you
will find the right couples. Always be polite, if they don't like
your rejection that's their problem not yours!
Meeting Up
For security purposes we always advocate meeting up in a local bar
or swingers club, then at least you can have a drink and a chat
before making any further plans.
Getting It Together
So you have decided to go for it with another couple, without us
teaching you to suck eggs, or anything else for that matter, here
are a few guidelines that you may forget about during your excitement!
Personal Hygiene
There is nothing worse than not being clean! Ensure you are clean
and have brushed your teeth, and remember if you are a smoker other
people detest it! Also if you are travelling any great distance
to meet people then you may need to freshen up again on arrival.
Alcohol & Drugs
Most people in the swinging circles don’t use alcohol or drugs,
though many of us do have a social drink. It does help you to relax
a little at a party, but don't over indulge as not only will it
hamper your personal abilities it can offend other people. We don't
agree to any drugs even the sex pills like Viagra, they are too
dangerous!
Safe Sex
It is up to you to protect yourselves
and have Safe Sex. Condoms do not offend anyone and if you are seen
to not take precautions and acting selfishly you will be asked to
leave and most likely blacklisted!
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